Help me..dudes, and bettys!! guy troubles?

i really like this guy and we're really good friends i suppose, it seems he likes to flirt with me, like he'll pick me up off the ground and kidd with me and i really thought he liked me...but then he says hes liked this other girl fer awhile( i havent told him i like him) but i was hoping he'd gotten over her...then he told me he loved me...but in a "brotherly/sisterly" way!! im so confuse...im 14