What can I do about the cyst in my head by the neck?

I have a cyst under my skull behind my right ear. It's almost in my neck, but still the hair area. It's there for about 14 years. It makes my neck very stiff and hurts alot from time to time. The pain usually goes up to my head and down to my right shoulder. It's not visible to the eyes, but if you touch it you can feel it's hardness. I've mentioned it to many doctor and all they do is give me mucle relaxing and exercise. I even went to an cirugian to get it removed and he said he couldn't see it, so he couldn't remove it (I couldn't help do not laugh and be glad he wasn't an obstetrician). What can you tell about this? Thanks.